Is It True That Getting Married Opens Up Opportunities for Sustenance?
Marriage is one of the sunnahs of the Prophet Muhammad SAW which is recommended to be carried out immediately for Muslims who are able. Behind marriage, some many wisdoms and benefits can be obtained, one of which is its effect on sustenance. This article aims to examine the effect of marriage on sustenance from the point of view of religion and household relationships.
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Islamic Perspective on Marriage
In Islam, there are several arguments that show the urgency of marriage in Islam. One of them is the saying of the Prophet Muhammad which reads:
النِّكَاحُ من سُنَّتِي فمَنْ لمْ يَعْمَلْ بِسُنَّتِي فَليسَ مِنِّي ، و تَزَوَّجُوا ؛ فإني مُكَاثِرٌ بِكُمُ الأُمَمَ
“Marriage is my sunnah; whoever does not follow my sunnah is not one of me. So get married, for I will be proud of the number of my people (on the Day of Judgement)
(Ibn Majah 1846, authenticated by al-Albani in Silsilah Ash Shahihah 2383).
From the hadith, it can be understood that marriage is one of the sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad SAW which is recommended to be implemented immediately. In addition, marriage is also believed to open the door to sustenance for married couples. This is based on the words of Allah SWT in QS. An-Nur verse 32 which reads:
وَأَنْكِحُوا الْأَيَامَى مِنْكُمْ وَالصَّالِحِينَ مِنْ عِبَادِكُمْ وَإِمَائِكُمْ إِنْ يَكُونُوا فُقَرَاءَ يُغْنِهِمُ اللَّهُ مِنْ فَضْلِهِ وَالَّهُ وَاسِعٌ عَلِيمٌ
“And give in marriage those who are alone among you, and those who are marriageable among your male servants and your female servants. If they are poor, Allah will enable them by His grace. And Allah is vast (His provision) and All-knowing
(QS. An Nur: 32).
In more detail, there are several reasons why marriage can open the door to sustenance for married couples from an Islamic perspective, including:
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Increasing Gratitude
Marriage can increase the gratitude of married couples for the blessings they get. This gratitude can lead them to more blessed sustenance. This is mentioned in Surah Ibrahim verse 7:
لَئِنْ شَكَرْتُمْ لَأَزِيدَنَّكُمْ
“If you will give thanks, then I will indeed increase your favours.”
(QS. Ibrahim: 7)
Increasing Good Deeds
Marriage can encourage couples to do more good deeds. These good deeds can be one of the factors that bring sustenance.
مَنْ عَمِلَ صَالِحًا مِنْ ذَكَرٍ أَوْ أُنْثَىٰ وَهُوَ مُؤْمِنٌ فَلَنُحْيِيَنَّهُ حَيَاًة طَيِّبَةً ۖ وَلَنَجْزِيَنَّهُمْ أَجْرَهُمْ بِأَحْسَنِ مَا كَانُوا يَعْمَلُون
Whoever does righteous deeds, whether male or female, while believing, We will surely give him a good life and We will surely reward him with a better reward than what he has done.
(QS .An-Nahl: 97)
Receiving Parents’ Prayers
The prayers of parents, especially the prayers of the mother, are very mustajab. When a child gets married, he or she will get prayers from both parents for goodness in their household, among the goodness is abundant sustenance.
Household Relationship Perspective
from the perspective of household relationships, marriage can have a positive impact on the sustenance of married couples. This is due to several factors, among others:
Increase Motivation and Work Enthusiasm
Marriage can provide higher motivation and morale for husbands. This is because they have the responsibility to provide for their families.
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Increased Happiness and Optimism
Marriage can increase a husband and wife’s sense of happiness and optimism. This can improve their productivity and work performance.
Mutual Support and Help
Husband and wife can support and help each other in their endeavors. This can increase their chances of success.
Having Clearer Life Goals
Marriage can help couples have clearer life goals. This can motivate them to work harder and achieve their goals.
Manage Finances Better
Marriage can encourage couples to manage their finances better due to their needs and future financial goals. This can help them save and achieve their financial goals.
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Marriage is a sunnah of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and is a great act of worship. Performing the act of marriage means following the guidance of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and gaining rewards from Allah. But in performing the act of marriage, of course, there are concerns about sustenance and maintenance for the family, especially for husbands. Hopefully, knowing that Allah ta’ala promises sustenance for those who get married will encourage husbands and singles who want to marry.
Wallahu a’lam
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